Isaac: I had a long day, I’m exhausted
Me: Me too
Isaac: I’m going to go get in bed. Want to come up there and get in bed with me while I play video games? But we don’t talk to each other, we just lay there quietly and we just get to be together in the same room and lay next to each other because I love you so much and want to be with you…but we just lay there not really talking or saying anything? (all said in one big, long breath)
Yes. 1,000 times yes.
(why an introvert marrying an introvert is the best possible situation)
HAHAHA. Eric and I are SO like this, too!
Ahhh it’s the BEST, no? 😀 How’s life in CO by the way? Allergies any better? Hope you and Eric are well!
Totally the best! Love it here. Allergies are better for sure. Not perfect, but not as debilitating in MA. Hope you are feeling better after your allergic reaction from eating out the other night. So scary!
Moments like that are what make a great relationship. Being together yet having your own space. Being able to spend time together but do different things. You’re not sucking each other’s energies, you’re enjoying life with a companion by your side.
No needy necessary.
You are exactly right. And I’m so thankful to be married to someone who understands how valuable our energy is, and how it needs to be restored.
Cute. Those are the best kind of nights!
Sure are! 🙂
Awww 🙂
Your husband really understands you. I totally want to do an introvert party where we all get together and sit around and watch TV and not say stuff to each other. That would be the best party.
Isn’t that why a group of people goes to the movies together?
Yeah, except this would be at a house.
haha true- I guess that is what going to a movie is!! Granted, sometimes movie theaters are still draining to me b/c of the crowds of people. I like your idea of inviting everyone over for an introvert party. Actually, that would be an awesome invitation to send out haha. I could set up my house with bean bag chairs, and quiet little nooks for reading or watching movies by the fireplace. Heaven!
You might as well, but I have a feeling that all the extroverts would ruin it by talking to people, asking questions about what the point of the party was.